BEING CONTROVERSIAL IS A PERSONALITY?

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Yes, it actually is a personality for me.
One thing I've learnt about being controversial is that people will hate your GUTS.
They will forever find a way to play victim and use your words against you but in the light of it, I don't let things like that get to me. lol
I have trained my mind to accept the consequences and backlash that comes with being BLUNT and straight to the point.
Some people are not used to hearing the truth straight up, they are not used to being countered so when they come across a controversial or blunt person, they just assume the worst and say all sort of insane things. Some of them even have the guts to assume they have studied yoy and start questioning your character or choices.
Like... chill you just met me and this is just icing on the cake.

I've come across so many shallow minded people like that and honestly, it doesn't bother me anymore.
Not everyone is also mature enough to understand sacarcm and take criticism the right way.
It's quite sad cause they don't see the world like we do snd they're missing out a lot from our perspective... i think.

I've accepted who I am and it doesn't bother me anymore. I mean, I used to care about what people will think and if I'd be accepted but now, lmao
I really don't care because I have goals and a responsibility.
Sometimes, people tend to forget that other people can overgrow something be it a phase or goal and find a new goal that suites their present life.
They fail to understand that "one man's food is another man's poison"
I mean, just cause I'm not doing it doesn't make it wrong/right, I just don't feel like doing it and you must understand that it doesn't change anything because we're all entitled to our different thoughts and opinions.
I know it may sound like I'm not saying anything but I really be typing what's in my head😹.

At this point in my life, meaningless or time wasting things are not my priority.
They don't interest me anymore.
I just want to be myself, achieve my goals & just have peace of mind which is the most important thing.

I am Vanessa Anagwu and this is my life🦋